Reaching out & touching someone... old school style |
Think
about it, we can be instantly in touch with almost anyone on the planet. Writing,
voice or video, connecting has never been so easy. “Lightning fast” communication
started way back when with dots and dashes. Yet today we’re farther apart than
ever.
This
day marks the anniversary of the first telegraph message. On May 24, 1844,
Samuel Morse (of Morse code fame) sent an experimental transmission from
Washington, DC, to neighboring Baltimore. The success of that telegraphic
message trumpeted the start of a surge in our ability to be in touch, the likes
of which history had never before seen.
About
20 years later in 1861, Western Union completed the first transcontinental
telegraph line. That technology leap doomed the fabled Pony Express, a
transcontinental mail system in which mail was relayed, horse by horse, between
the frontier state of California and the East Coast. Between April 1860 and
October 1861, this service was yesteryear’s cross-country equivalent of today’s
Federal Express.
That's some way to earn a living |
Enter
Alexander Graham Bell’s telephone. The year was 1876. It was the start of an
eventual dial up love affair that endures to this day.
Who
remembers when calling “long distance” was a big deal? Never mind ringing
somebody in another country; back in the ‘60s things ground to a halt whenever
mom in Michigan would dial up relatives in Ohio. And a phone call from Los
Angeles? Fuhgetaboutit. Life as we knew it stopped as we learned the latest
from our California cousins, aunts and uncles.
FedEx
in the ‘70s and the rise of telephone answering machines a decade later further
enhanced our ability to reach out and touch. Then came the Internet, which
exploded for consumers in the ‘90s.
Humankind has never had it so good.
One
would think with all this access to communication that we’d enter a new state
of being; a kinder and gentler humanity. Yet our increased ability to stay in
touch has rendered us more distant than ever.
Bad
news is the preferred news, especially on social media like Facebook. Some
folks are engaging in meaningful online dialog across the miles, or across the
street for that matter. But most eschew positive intercourse in favor of narrow,
one-sided, fear-based, sensationalized conversations.
Hit me back on the telegraph |
Consider
texting, Twitter, Instagram and Snapchat – among the most popular forms of
communication, particularly with young people. Concurrently, phone companies
report talk times among youth are declining.
All
these forms of contact have one thing in common: short, controlled bursts of
communication. They also conveniently allow persons on receiving end to choose
whether and when to engage in conversation. This enables individuals to keep
each other at arm’s length, with comfort and convenience being the operative
words.
Unintended
byproducts of these communication platforms include genuine misunderstandings between
people at best, and hateful cyberbullying at worst.
Ironically,
today’s preferred ways of connecting in many ways harken to the early days of telegraph
and telegram communication, when there was no choice but to be brief and to the
point. What’s old is new.
Perhaps
in the end, what’s happening is merely a case of us continuing to evolve toward
something wonderful and stumbling along the way. Either that or it’s the start
of a return to a communication Dark Ages, which hardly bodes well for equity
among people.
Follow J.R. on Twitter @4humansbeing or
contact him at 4humansbeing@gmail.com.
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