It’s that agreeable cocktail of joy we all have experienced in babies at one time or another, which has to potential to affect even the most crotchety of us. That’s if we allow it. It’s as if a baby’s life force somehow transmits a kind of healing property that helps boost our sense of well-being. Maybe it’s a chemical they give off that triggers the release of our endorphins or whatever. In any case, that special something can instill us with a certain something that envelopes and fills us, at least temporarily, with a satisfying calmness. There’s more.
Ever take the time to watch a baby, really observe one to try and get into its fuzzy little head? If she’s being raised in a safe and nurturing environment, she’ll tend to project a certain fascination about simply being. Talk about living in the moment. When they’re old enough, that fascination gives way to a marked desire to more actively explore their world. This can be problematic when they learn to how to churn their tiny arms and legs and crawl, but I digress.
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Theirs is a world of wonder and delight. It’s been a while since I was that age but from what I observe, babies seem curious about everything. Unlike adults, unexpected diversions seem welcome, and from moment to moment they are noticing things. People, places, plants, animals, sights sounds – the list is endless and so is their inquisitiveness. It’s boundless. That is until something unfortunate happens, if we’re not careful. Some say if we’re too careful.
Too many times among too many babies their curiosity is bridled. It’s suppressed for their own good, I’ve heard some adults explain. Sure, as grown-ups we’ve learned there are certain realities in this world – dangers that must be kept at arm’s length for the sake of baby’s safety. But must it also be at the expense of an infant’s emerging marvel about the world? At the cost of their sense of independence? Does keeping baby on a short leash enhance their quality of life and potential? Or does it hinder it?
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I wonder if this stifling of babies on the part of the adults has more to do with our own states of mind rather than the supposed welfare of infants? Sure our job is to protect them. But shouldn’t part of that role also be to keep babies wanting to learn about their world?