This childhood incident flipped me out. |
So it was in elementary school gym class. It involved a
trampoline and included a boy named James Clark.
We were not best friends nor even close really. In fact,
our only association was that we went to the same school and shared some of the
same classes.
Still, what he did for me back then is something I think
about to this very day. In fact, it was one of those kind of things that has
guided my values and life choices.
Not sure what James Clark goes by today but back then we
just referred to him simply as “Clark.” Why we called him that I’m not sure,
except that maybe our gym teacher, Mr. Campbell, referred to us all by our last
names.
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Clark was the strong, silent type. He could do anything
and was good at everything. Never said much but he was always the first guy you
picked in kickball, basketball, you name it. He was the fittest, fastest, most
agile kid on the floor.
Me? I was scrawniest. Well, one of them anyway. Timid
too. Still, I could hold my own in gym. A couple times I was next to the last
kid left in dodge ball! Like most people, I’d have my moments. Every now and
then at least. It’s just Clark was in a league of his own; he was always in the
sports spotlight.
But there’s one moment I doubt Clark, Mr. Campbell or
anyone else in gym class remembers. Except for me. In fact, it turned out to be
a defining moment in my life. It was during trampoline week, my favorite time
in gym, because I was so good at it.
A simple act helped shape my understanding of social justice. |
Clark was first up. He jumped high and sure, performing
knee drops and seat drops to perfection. One by one everyone else took a turn
on the tramp. There was no order to who went next – just whoever got up there
first.
Me being me, I waited politely for my chance. Except it
never came. Everyone had been up and folks had begun taking second, even third
turns. Back then I wasn’t very good at speaking up and so I resigned myself to
not getting a chance to participate.
We were nearing the end of gym class when somebody said,
“Give Reynolds a turn.”
It was Clark. The way was clear.
On the tramp, I was high; in more ways than one. So much
that I performed a forbidden flip. I didn’t stick the landing, but I didn’t
care. Mr. Campbell did though. As punishment, he ordered me off the tramp and
told me to give him 20 clappers (a form of pushups). I didn’t mind; I had gotten
a chance on the tramp. Clark had spoken up for me. Clark did!
Why Clark did that I’ll never know. But it had an impact
on me I’ll never forget. Maybe that’s where my passion for social justice comes
from, and why I try to speak up for those unable to do so themselves. In any
event, thanks James Clark.
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